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Why You Need to Schedule Sex (And How to Do It Right)
Why Proper Planning is the Key to Mind-Blowing SexMany people believe that sex should be spontaneous, and scheduling it takes away passion and excitement. However, we believe that scheduling sex is not only beneficial, but it can actually enhance your sex life.
Ensure intimacy despite busy schedules.
Let's get this straight - scheduled sex is better than no sex. Many couples lead hectic lives, and finding time for each other can be challenging.
By scheduling sex, you're committing to prioritize your relationship, which can help maintain the connection between you and your partner.
Reduce pressure and anxiety around sex
When sex is spontaneous, some people may feel anxious or worried about whether they both are in the mood. Maybe one of the partners is being pressured.
This pressure can lead to a negative experience and may even lead to avoiding sex altogether. However, when sex is scheduled, it can be a more relaxed and enjoyable experience since both partners have agreed on the time and are prepared for it.
Create anticipation and excitement
When you schedule sex, it can build anticipation and excitement leading up to the event. This is especially true if you plan something special, like a romantic dinner or a sensual massage, to precede the intimate moment.
This anticipation can help to enhance the sexual experience and lead to more fulfilling intimacy.
Encourage communication and exploration between partners
When you make an effort to schedule sex, it creates an opportunity for both partners to discuss their sexual preferences, desires, and boundaries.
Sexual communication can lead to exploration, experimentation, and, ultimately, a more fulfilling sex life.
How to Schedule Sex Effectively
Now that we've discussed the importance and benefits of scheduling sex in relationships let's dive into some practical tips and strategies for effectively scheduling sex.
Setting Time to Talk About SchedulingFirst and foremost, it's essential to communicate with your partner openly and honestly about your desire to schedule sex. This conversation can be uncomfortable, so it's important to set aside time when both of you are relaxed and have no distractions.
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The "Naughty Conversations" is a collection of 100 intimate and sexy questions about fantasies, desires, and sex. Play them with your partner, and let the Naughty Conversations do the talking for you!
Strategies for Making Scheduled Sex EnjoyableOnce you've established a sex schedule, there are several strategies you can use to make the experience enjoyable and fulfilling.
Maintaining Intimacy and Connection Outside of Scheduled Sex
Finally, it's crucial to maintain intimacy and connection outside of scheduled sex. Sex is a crucial part of intimacy and physical affection, but it is not the only one. So, you need to be intimate as much as your daily lives allows you to.
This means finding ways to show affection and appreciation for your partner throughout the day, such as cuddling, hugging, or sending thoughtful messages.
Why Good Sex Requires More Than Just SpontaneityEven with the benefits of scheduled sex, people may have some common concerns. Let's look at a few of them and how to overcome them.