The excitement, desire, and passion – when you have all those elements in your relationship, sex is just amazing! But as the relationship matures, and the initial feelings wear off, also the sex can become stale and boring.
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Top Reasons Why Sex Gets Boring in a Relationship
Sex Has Become a Chore
You Struggle to Find Time for Sex
You No Longer Want to Try New Things in Bed
You Don't Take Care of Yourself
Many relationships go into a decline if one of both of you stops taking care of yourself, and this includes your sexual life. If we stop looking after our well being, mental health and yes, looks, then our confidence and levels of sex drive takes a hit.
If we don't feel comfortable with ourselves, we unconsciously make excuses for not wanting sex.
Of course, this goes both way - if the other person becomes less attentive, you can lose interest in him/her, so the sex starts to feel less exciting.
You Don’t Feel Wanted
You Forget About the Foreplay
You’re Always Not in the Mood or Tired
You Don’t Know How to Spice up Your Sex Life
So, sex has become boring, and you want to spice things up in the bedroom. Or, maybe you are shy about your fantasies? But the question is - what to do? The short answer: add variety.
You Don’t Talk About Sex Enough
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