14 Tips to Get You in the Mood for Sex
1. Create a Sensual Setting
2. Turn Your Partner On
3. Use Words That Are Playful and Sensual
4. Stay fit
5. Tell a Sexy Story
6. Be Romantic
7. Use Your Hands
8. Use Sex Toys
9. Be SpontaneousEvery couple is different, but from time to time everyone likes to do some exciting, and explore their desires and hidden pleasures in the bedroom.
10. Keep the Mood LightThe idea is simple, but it works. Quite simply make your partner relaxed, and leave all the stress at the door.
11. Know Your BoundariesSometimes it just is not the right time to get into the mood, and trying to get someone in the mood would be forced to have sex, so it is important to know your boundaries.
12. Play a Sexy GameSometimes the daily responsibilities just get in your way of getting in the mood.
13. Be Patient
Sex has to be approached with the right attitude," says sexologist Dr. Rachel Venning. "It's not a race — it takes time. And a lot of patience."
One of the most important aspects of foreplay is your own arousal and excitement. And this includes setting the stage for sexual activity.
One way is to try intentionally to get in the mood, but you can also wait until you’re aroused and then slowly move into the next room.
Sometimes the best way is to wait a little. If quick tips do not help you, then it probably is wise to wait for a little. Not to force it.
But, if you (or your partner) just cannot get in the mood for a long period of time, probably there are some bigger problems underneath, and you should resolve them first. This will prevent even more stressful situations.
14. Find Your Unique Solution
Everyone and every couple have different levels of sex drive, unique fantasies, and needs for pleasure, so there is no one-fits-all solution.
The best way to approach this is to be open with each other. Open to communication and trying new things.
Talk about sex and your preferences, then play out some of your fantasies. Switch it up, then see what you both enjoy the most, and then do it more.
Keep it fun, honest, and sexy.