Of course, there can be a good and also a bad role play, so there are some things you should know before diving headfirst into this world of make-believe. In this blog post, we're going to share with you our best tips on how to get the most out of role-playing!
Now let's dive into some steps to follow for the best role-play experience!
Role-Play for Couples: Tips and Guidelines for the Best Experience
Benefits of Role Play
Sex is a journey and sex in a healthy relationship is built on trust, on openness, and creativity, but over time it can get stale or uninteresting.
Imagine - you are having sex with the same person over and over again for years. So, it is not difficult to see the sex becoming boring, if don't change anything in your sexual routine, and don't try out new things.
And role play gives you the opportunity not to only try out new things, but to try them as new personas! In role play you can be whatever you want with whomever you want, and to do it however you want it!
Get comfortable and set boundaries
First and foremost, you want to make sure that both of you are comfortable with it. This should be a mutual decision as role-playing is something quite intimate and personal.
Learn what is for you
Need some Role Play Inspiration?
The photographer and model are in the shower, he starts to get turned on. He's been wanting this for a long time but she always denied it because of her husband or boyfriend who knows where they were at that moment. This time though will be different! The aggressiveness from him has made their chemistry so intense that even without touching any part except through words-the atmosphere becomes too much for them not to break down under pressure.
Or The doctor and his sexy nurse were getting it on in the examination room. The patient was just outside, waiting for them to finish so that he could get back home early from work! They both looked really excited as they rammed themselves into each other's bodies while wearing something very sensual which made those around them staring openly at what affairs were being carried out right before their eyes...
Remember nobody knows your relationship better than yourselves which means anything goes here, no matter how vanilla or crazy or kinky it may seem. Just keep communicating with each other throughout the process to make sure everyone feels included while staying safe along.
The possibilities are endless, so it really just depends on what both of you want and how far you're willing to go. Just make sure that you discuss your role playing idea beforehand, including limits and boundaries in case one or the other decides they don't feel comfortable continuing any further!
3 Simple Sexy Scenario Ideas
In the world of role play there are millions of sexy scenarios you can play out, and before you try out the Naughty Scenarios, you can have a go with these simple sex scenes.
When you are in a healthy relationship, usually both partners are respected and no one is bossed around, but when it comes to role playing, then you can live out your inner need to be a control freak, or the submissive one.
To make it more interesting you can add to the fantasy some authority figure elements. Maybe one is a boss in a large corporation, while the other is the secretary.
Mile High Club
Having sex in an airplane and joining the mile-high club is a world-wide fantasy, but to actually pull it off in an actual airplane can get you in real trouble! But in role-play you can do it without any problems.
On top of that why not sprinkle your role play idea with some additional extras. Maybe you are a passenger who is seduced by the flight attendant or the pilot.
One Night Stand
This is a relatively simple role play idea that can go a long way. Imagine you are complete strangers (for added bonus - meet up in a bar), seduce each other, and then have mind blowing one night stand!
For some this might be a complete no-go, and that is OK. But due to its mysticism and a sense of wrong, for some the religious role play idea can be massive turn on.
There are several personas you can play out. Maybe you are a nun who wishes to experience sex for the first time. Or, you can be a priest seduced by a rebellious student in a religious school who wishes to be as naught as possible as a way of protest
Pool Boy / Pool Girl
In this sex scene you can be an owner of a mansion who can't resist the desire to seduce his/her pool boy/girl. This is another classic fantasy that can include several other elements, like power play and age play.
Take Role Play Seriously and Stay in Character
But Don't Take Role Play too Seriously
Being said to take it seriously, don't go overboard with it. Balance is the key.
Remember that you are living out your sex fantasy to have fun, so try to keep in character, but keep it light.
If you don't feel comfortable with something - don't do it, or slowly ease into it by trying it out step by step. And if you have a laugh from time to time - that is a good thing.
Explore Role Play and Bond Together
Add to the excitement by having props
Safe words and pausing the role play
Every new sexual experience should have a safe word, and role-play is definitely among them. Playing a new scenario you will feel into the skin of different personas, sometimes your partner might confuse you wanting to stop with you just pretending to get out of it, so a safe word is a must.
We recommend choosing something easy to remember and also silly that would almost never fit well into a regular situation – so when you need to use it, you know that the safe word was used. Some examples would be “Snow is blue”, “the milk is outside”, “fast turtle”. You would agree that they all sound ridiculous, right and no one would use them in a normal sentence? And, that is exactly the point.
Pausing the Experience
When it comes to pausing the role-play, don’t just jump up from the bed or couch because that might make things pretty awkward between everyone. Instead, we recommend saying the safe word and then explaining that you need to take a break.
Maybe you need to have a glass of water, or a bathroom break, so by pausing the role play if you can avoid having some awkwardness. Also, in case you wish to change some rules of your role-play, pausing it is a great way to do it.
Remember - don’t be afraid to say you aren't comfortable with something. This is a safe environment and being open about your boundaries will help things go as smoothly as possible for all parties involved!
If you are looking for new sexual ideas or want to get a better understanding of who you are, then role-playing is the way to go. But before diving in headfirst, make sure you know what it takes to have an enjoyable experience!