Of course, there can be a good and also a bad role play, so there are some things you should know before diving headfirst into this world of make-believe. In this blog post, we're going to share with you our best tips on how to get the most out of role-playing!
Now let's dive into some steps to follow for the best role-play experience!
Role-Play for Couples: Tips and Guidelines for the Best Experience
Get comfortable and set boundaries
First and foremost, you want to make sure that both of you are comfortable with it. This should be a mutual decision as role-playing is something quite intimate and personal. It's not just about pretending; for a brief time, you both will actually become someone else, so you both need to feel safe enough before starting the game itself.
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The photographer and model are in the shower, he starts to get turned on. He's been wanting this for a long time but she always denied it because of her husband or boyfriend who knows where they were at that moment. This time though will be different! The aggressiveness from him has made their chemistry so intense that even without touching any part except through words-the atmosphere becomes too much for them not to break down under pressure.
Or The doctor and his sexy nurse were getting it on in the examination room. The patient was just outside, waiting for them to finish so that he could get back home early from work! They both looked really excited as they rammed themselves into each other's bodies while wearing something very sensual which made those around them staring openly at what affairs were being carried out right before their eyes...
Remember nobody knows your relationship better than yourselves which means anything goes here, no matter how crazy or kinky it may seem. Just keep communicating with each other throughout the process to make sure everyone feels included while staying safe along.
The possibilities are endless, so it really just depends on what both of you want and how far you're willing to go. Just make sure that everything is discussed beforehand including limits and boundaries in case one or the other decides they don't feel comfortable continuing any further!
Every new sexual experience should have a safe word, and role-play is definitely among them. As playing a new scenario you will feel into the skin of different personas, sometimes your partner might confuse you wanting to stop with you just pretending to get out of it, so a safe word is a must.
We recommend choosing something easy to remember and also silly that would almost never fit well into a regular situation – so when you need to use it, you know that the safe word was used. Some examples would be “Snow is blue”, “the milk is outside”, “fast turtle”. You would agree that they all sound ridiculous, right? And, that is exactly the point.
When it comes to pausing the role-play, don’t just jump up from the bed or couch because that might make things pretty awkward between everyone. Instead, we recommend saying the safe word and then explaining that you need to take a break.
Maybe you need to have a glass of water, or a bathroom break, so by pausing the role play if you can avoid having some awkwardness. Also, in case you wish to change some rules of your role-play, pausing it is a great way to do it.
Remember - don’t be afraid to say you aren't comfortable with something. This is a safe environment and being open about your boundaries will help things go as smoothly as possible for all parties involved!