10 Foreplay Activities that Will Drive Your Partner Wild!


It’s no secret that foreplay is one of the most important components of sex—but what exactly does it entail? From making out to dirty talk, here are ten things you can do to keep your partner and yourself well-pleasured.
Foreplay is more than just massages or talking dirty—it’s a process of getting your partner aroused and doing a little research to find out how you can help them get the best sexual experience possible.
You’ll learn 10 things you can do to get your partner turn on—and you’ll discover why doing foreplay activities will give you an advantage in bed. Plus, you’ll see some ways you can improve your own sex life by learning what your partner likes.
Whether you're married or dating, these 10 foreplay activities will turn your partner on like crazy and make you both want more of each other. *Tips are sorted in no particular order and can be done each separately. 


*Tips are sorted in no particular order and can be done each separately. 


Read time: approximately 12 minutes

10 Foreplay Activities that Will Drive Your Partner Wild!


What is foreplay and why do you need it?


At its core, foreplay are activities that prepare you for sex, but truly it is so much more than that.
It is no secret that a great foreplay prepares you for the main event and then is followed by even more amazing sex, and orgasm, so this is a strong reason by itself.
But not only that – forepay by is a form of intimacy, more than sex itself, because sex can be easily done by two strangers, but making love and playing out a passionate foreplay, that can be achieved only by two people who trust each other.
So, you can think of foreplay as a bonding experience, where you express passion, love, and trust. And those are the true things that matter in a relationship.


1. Warm-Up: Kissing


The kiss is about more than just physical stimulation. It’s a way for two people to connect and express feelings of love.
It’s a moment of mutual understanding, acceptance, and connection. It’s a moment of bonding.
The best way to ensure a good kiss is to remember some of these key things: Have the correct frame of mind when you kiss. Don’t be afraid to experiment with different types of kisses. Keep in mind that you don’t have to do anything in particular. You can just be yourself.
The next step is to begin a gentle and sensual kiss. Allow yourself to enjoy the moment and become completely absorbed in your partner.
You may want to begin by kissing the cheek and side of the mouth. Work your way up to the lips and then go for the tongue. Kiss your partner’s neck and shoulders and slowly move all over their body. 
One of the best ways to turn your partner on is by being passionate. Kissing your partner deeply is an excellent way to show him or her how much you care. 

Kissing in foreplay

2. Touch: The First Sensual Stroke


When it comes to touching your partner's body, it's important to be mindful of their comfort level. You should start by gently touching their arm or shoulder and wait for a response before proceeding.
If they seem comfortable with it, you can move on to touching their chest, stomach, or back. always be sure to stop if your partner asks you to stop.
There are a few ways you can apply pressure while caressing your partner. You can use one hand or two, but either way, remember to vary your pressure.
The more you try to figure out where your partner likes being touched, the easier this exercise will be to perform.
You can also try different variations of caressing patterns. Instead of using the same pattern each time, you should switch it up and try new things spontaneously to surprise them.
You may wonder if your partner would enjoy something more intense than what you're currently doing. There is only one way to find out: ask!




3. Surprise: Play the Foreplay Game


“My boyfriend and I love this game! We've yet to make it past more than 5 cards each time we play. ;-)” that is just one of the many great things our customers had to say about the Foreplay game.
The Foreplay Game for couples contains 50 sensual activities for couples that will turn you on, let your juices flow for each other, and create a foreplay experience to remember.
These 50 sexy surprises are easy to follow and perform In other words, if you’re a couple who wishes to create a more exciting and fun foreplay experience, then this game is exactly what you need!

Foreplay activities

4. Knead: Body and Mind


Whether you're getting a massage or going to an erotic spa, this foreplay activity involves the physical and mental stimulation of your partner.
You can use your hands, mouth, and toes. You can also play with your partner's body parts like nipples and back, or even genitals and butt. As the name implies, it will leave your partner in a state of pleasure.
Kneading is the most underrated way to increase your partner's sexual pleasure, says sex therapist Dr. Laura Berman, M.D. 
"The next time you are going to have sex, try to get into the mood and get the juices flowing by kneading, rubbing, and massaging. This can help your partner feel like the king or queen of the castle."


5. Tickle: Sensual Pleasure

Use your fingers or a tickler and draw light tickling touches over your partner’s body. This foreplay technique is more about building sexual tension and anticipation than about pleasure itself.
The idea behind tickle is to give your partner an extra sensory sensation that gets his or her heart racing, thus increasing the likelihood of him or her wanting to engage in sex.
By playing with the erogenous zones on your partner’s body, you’re increasing the amount of sexual tension between the two of you.
You can also use tickling to help your partner feel sexy and sensual, and for a little bit of fun.
In his book, The Art of Seduction, author Robert Greene describes it this way: “Tickle is a subtle art that is all about sensuality, tenderness, the slow building of arousal and the desire for the ultimate in pleasure and satisfaction. It’s all about touch.”

6. Anticipation: Sensory Deprivation


Build anticipation and excitement by limiting the movement or blindfolding your partner.
It is a favorite way to create sexual tension in foreplay and is used by beginners and experienced couples alike. It also adds an element of surprise when you remove the blindfold.
This technique can be applied to any type of foreplay and mixed with other techniques as you can tie up your partner's hands, while not allowing him/her to touch you. Or you can blindfold your partner, and surprise him/her with unexpected touches.
As a great addition to your sensory deprivation play are our Sensual Pleasure ties - a set of 2 ties made of high-quality satin, and an included sating gift bag for safe storing.

Sensual ties for foreplay

7. Lick: First Taste


This is a favorite for many. A great way to start a sensual encounter is to lick your partner’s neck, back and chest area.
Start with a kiss and then follow up with licks and nibbles all over his or her neck, including the ears. Then move onto the back or chest area. And nipples are a fantastic zone to explore as well – for women and men alike.
This can be a sensual introduction to kissing and foreplay and can create anticipation for your lover. If you want to take it a step further, add a few drops of drink to the mix, and then slowly lick your partner’s body as you slip off your clothes.


8. Vibes: Scent and Flavor


Scent and flavor can add a lot to the atmosphere, which then translates in increased pleasure and satisfaction.
We can have some fun when we are having sex with our lovers. We can try out different things together by using our hands, tongues, fingers, and other objects to discover what each other likes and what is going to be the most pleasurable, but always a good atmosphere will make everything better.
For example, ask yourself – do you feel more relaxed at dimly lit room with scented candles while soft music playing, or in a messy room with TV playing, and windows open?
Of course, there is a time and place for every kind of atmosphere, but most times you will relax more in the first room, and foreplay is all about relaxation.
So, be sure to remember this, when you want to plan your next sensual foreplay, and surprise your partner with the perfect setting for an amazing night to follow.

Foreplay ideas

9. Tease: Dirty Talk


When you’re looking to get your lover in the mood, dirty talk can be one of the most effective ways to do it. Dirty talk can be defined as the use of language to achieve sexual arousal in both sexes.
But there’s a fine line between dirty talk and objectification. It doesn’t do much good to tell someone things that make him/her feel bad.
So, use dirty talk with caution – start slowly telling some general, sexy phrases, like “I want you so badly”, then move on to more vulgar things to say, like “I want to f*ck you”, and then the sky is the limit. Experiment and see where it takes you!


Of course, these 2 suggested quotes are simple suggestions, and there are thousands of dirty talk lines you can use - from vanilla to vulgar. You just have to find what is the sweet spot for you.

Just be sure to check up to one another, so you know your dirty talk is turning you on, not off!

10. Rub: A Passionate Massage


A massage isn’t just about having the person relax while you stroke their muscles. It is also setting a state of mind and showing how much, you care for your partner. It is a special form of intimacy.
It not only relieves stress, but let your bodies connect and communicate with body language.
A passionate massage is about paying attention to what you are doing and working with your partner’s energy. It is about creating a relaxing atmosphere, being attentive to what they like and don’t like, but also to the way they move under your touch.
It’s also about how you use massage oil, how you work on them, and how you touch them. We would suggest using high-quality, plant-based massage oil that will moisturize and nourish your partner's skin, like our scented Massage Oil Affection
When you use massage oil, it will make your job easier. You will feel more relaxed. You should make sure that your partner has plenty of time to relax and enjoy themselves. You can put some relaxing music in the background or turn off the television so they can focus on what you're doing.
If you wish to learn more about the Sensual Couples massage, read here.

Sensual massage oil

11. Bonus: Do it over again


When exactly does a foreplay start? Well, in our opinion there are two kinds of Foreplay.



  1.  The obvious one or the physical foreplay, which we all know. It is physical and consists of some mixture of all the techniques we discussed in this article.   

  2.  The ongoing, or the emotional foreplay, which is quite often forgotten or overlooked. Basically, everything you do, is a part of foreplay – the way you dress, the way you look at your partner, the way you communicate. And, we are not talking about the time, when the physical Foreplay occurs. We are talking about the everyday routine 

So, after your amazingly passionate evening ends, remember that! Be considerate, be nice, and talk with your partner – it all will contribute to your next physical foreplay.



Better foreplay



Foreplay is a vital part of intimacy, and the quality of sex. There are so many types of foreplay activities that will excite your partner and really get them in the mood for sex.
While some couples enjoy dirty talk or a passionate massage, others like to take toys or games in their assortment, others enjoy role-play.
No matter what kind of foreplay you decide to do, just make sure that you and your partner are comfortable with the type of foreplay that you want to engage in.
If you’re feeling playful, try some of these foreplay activities that will drive your partner wild.

As always, feel free to read other relationship tips and look around our store to find some thoughtful and sexy gifts for couples.


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